We all have our share of some screw-ups and embarrassing experiences with girls in the past but come on --- what's the point of delving too much about it? The trauma may still be there but its prime time for you to get a grip and move on with your life --- there are so many girls, so little time, my man! So get geared up (with confidence, poise and probably a few lines that work) and step out of your apartment tonight --- here are a few techniques to make women like you in an instant --- start your journey towards becoming an absolute babe magnet now!
- Don't give it your all.Get a hold of yourself. Being a bit too excited is okay however, there's a big chance for you to appear a bit desperate for attention and needy for approval --- something that definitely turns a woman off. So go for a little chitchat, share something about yourself, stay cool and don't lose it --- you will need it if you want to keep her interested.
- Be likable. Don't just go out there and think that every girl you lay your eyes on will instantly like you (goes to saying that you shouldn't start to think that's impossible to hook up with any girl out there). Everything demands a little effort to make everything work out just fine. So love yourself, be friendly, appear calm and make the fine impression --- that's the basic thing to remember if you want a woman to notice you.
- Stay in control. When anxiety starts to kick in, take a deep breath and focus --- and don't forget to have fun while trying to attract and seduce women. One fun way to do that is by flirting --- make use of body language, exchange a few witty banters with each other --- but stay in control all the time. Keep your emotions on a certain level, watch what you say, don't laugh all too loud and don't be too over enthusiastic that a girl has finally started noticing you --- stay collected. It's a definite turn on. And very appealing, as well.
- Intrigue her. How? By keeping a little bit to yourself. By leaving something for her imagination. Women crave for a little drama and some mystery in life that's why they're often branded as the much emotional sex --- they love to solve riddles and will do anything to feed their curiosity. That's why it pays to be a little mysterious sometimes --- it's simply for the ladies.
- Dating.